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Hello my dear readers, I am once again writing to share my fondest thoughts about everything under the sun. Right now, I would like to share something interesting that will sure fascinate everyone who may or may not have a partner in life. I know that several people always try to seek for questions on how to maintain a long lasting relationship with the love of their lives. I must say that the ultimate secret lies on the way you treat your partner. Yes, I am a believer of karma that is why I adhere in the fact that the kind of treatment we give to our partner is also the kind of treatment that we get from them.So if you want to have a lifelong relationship that you can be proud of, try to experiment on considering these 5 factors which I have always been sensitive of during the four-year relationship with my boyfriend.
1. Ego - If you would want your partner to stick with you through the years, you have to try your best not to skip on their ego. What I mean by this is for you to be considerate enough on how he feels when you do or you let him do something which you like. Keep in mind that your partners try to keep a deep value for themselves. As a tip, try the powers of the law of moderation. What you should do is to refrain from scolding or putting too much emphasis on mistakes that they have made because this may lead you to the death of the love that has been kept burning for several years or months.
2. Individual Differences -Don't try think of your boyfriend as a mirror of your personality because the two of you are unique to each other. While it is true that there may be some things that both you may want to do, you have to keep in mind that males would still be males and girls will always be girls. There are times when girls like us think that we could manipulate them with our words and we would always want them to project the kind of person which we want them to be. If you are someone who does this most of the time, you better be careful because most guys would still want to have an image which they can call their own. Thus, I would suggest that you just have to give them some time to breathe once in a while. Let them mingle with their friends and do the things that they love to do. You just have to let them remember that whatever freedom you give them has a responsibility that they have to bear and if they go against the rule, then they have to face the consequences of their actions.
3. Trust - Not all guys are born dumb- ass (hehe) there are still some smart ass guys out there who deserve to be trusted. Once you decided to commit yourself to the guy whom you think you would want to live with till your long black hair turns grey, you also have to face the fact that you have to trust them no matter what happens. I know that this sounds too idealistic but I am telling you that it is indeed possible to bring back a broken trust once you start to have faith and trust your guy. While it is a fact that most guys can be easily swept by other women who may be more beautiful and sexier than you, you have to keep in mind that your guy wouldn't bother to replace you with someone else once you show him that you deserve to be treasured and loved. If they make mistakes, show them the irony of their expectations. If you think that you would be very furious, try doing the irony of it...Reverse Psychology works well towards taming an unfaithful partner. Just keep holding unto him as long has he says he loves you. That's trust.
4. Care - In order to keep your man forever, you have to know how to care for him a lot. Caring doesn't just mean serving him by means of cooking or reminding him to take care of himself but caring also means being sensible to your partner especially with his actions. I am pretty sure that you have an awareness towards guys who never say about what they feel. In short, they are not vocal so if you love him, you have to know how to read his actions and be able to provide a positive response towardsthe meaning of these unspoken words.
5. Romance - Oh yes!!!! this word is their favorite. They may seem to make us think that they are not interested towards saying sweet nothings or doing simple things that tickle someone-Else's heart by means of cute gifts. The truth is, they like it a lot when girl's pamper them. They love being hugged, kissed and held in the even especially in public. It may sound like a Public Display of Affection but an act of allowing them to hold your hand or kiss you on the cheek in public once in while would make them think that you are proud of your love for him.
Alright, so there you have the 5 Main things to consider in order to unfold the Secret of a Long Lasting Relationship. I hope that you found my ideas informative and I also hope that It will work on you in a way that it also worked on me. God Speed and Good Luck on your relationship. Keep Loving Everyone!!!!
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